Tuesday, February 23, 2010

The Great Kid Within

"Let us not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." -- Galatians 6:9

I am not one to remember lines from movies, but one that keeps playing over and over in my mind is Mufasa's statement to his young cub in Disney's "The Lion King." It is a moment of revelation which could have saved this prince of the pride a lot of trouble and heartache, if only he had taken to heart his father's words: "Simba, you are more than you have become."

As I watch my own teenager struggle with the challenges of adolescence, making mistakes, and suffering the consequences for them, I sometimes speak those same words to him. As a parent, I pray diligently for my children, doing everything in my power to impress upon them how much God loves and values them and the promise that he has a wonderful plan for their lives. I truly believe they understand that, but in their limited, youthful inexperience, they cannot see how their present reality will impact their future potential. In other words, they are guilty of making poor choices that can and most likely will hinder the unfolding of God's plan and purpose for their lives. They don't realize that oversleeping and missing the bus could very well translate into showing up late for work and losing a job. Or that failing to make good grades in school will be a reflection to future employers or potential colleges of a lack of commitment to follow through and do a good job.

All I can do as a parent is continue to pray each day that God will open their eyes and somehow let them see how precious time is and how precious they are, to me and to him. I pray that they will quickly learn from their mistakes, correct their actions, and above all, have a heart for the one who created the great kid within.

Parenting is difficult and even heartbreaking at times. It requires the heart of a lion, and the help of the Lion of Judah, to train up our children in the way they should go.